Introduction in Germany, All about Germany
At the time of arrival to Germany we were already together
Neither I nor my husband never looked for acquaintances in GermanyBut young and lonely migrants will probably be interesting to find out how romantic Dating to happen in Germany and how the Germans are Dating. After all, for a foreigner, even if knowledge of the language, still in the German mentality may be completely unexpected. So I have collected information in different sources, mostly on forums, and asked friends. About how Dating for young Germans nothing special to say. Like young people all over the world, they meet, wherever, whenever. Mature Germans are quite conservative and practical. They consider it appropriate to flirt only at certain times and in designated areas.
For example, it's perfectly normal to meet people in Nightclubs or discos.
Transport, the gym, the city's parks -is also possible, but less appropriate. Absolutely unacceptable is to have a relationship at work or on duty.
In Germany, women get scared, if them flirting in “after hours” and not in designated areas, i.e.
not in a club or on a Dating site. For Dating German women of the zone. Such, for example, as a designated Smoking area. In Germany there is practically no culture of flirting. But perhaps it is not required. German Frau responds to flirting, for example, in the store with thoughts like: 'What he wants from me. Needless to say, flirting is a skill that field and possess the neighbors of the Germans - the French and the Italians, but not Germans. It once, a long time ago, the noble ladies and gentlemen with the help of gestures and hints, the movement of a fan or binoculars can chat, tease and seduce. But times have changed, now change romance came to practicality, and to replace reckless - cold calculation. This trend exists in all the world, but the Germans problems in the art of flirting experience not only men but also women. Pragmatism and practicality is very firmly entrenched in their character. For example, the famous Bavarian festival Oktoberfest German woman, not to bother about flirting, invented a simple signal of readiness to meet you. Girls who consider themselves free during beer festivals, tie belt on the left side, and if the bow is emblazoned on the right, the gentlemen then there's no chance. Moreover, the Germans very clearly follow this rule and do not interfere with fun “busy” Frau. The same thing happens in discos, where I several times went with friends. The Germans often suggested to begin acquaintance, but I have never insisted him to continue, when I explained to them that their society bothers me. On the one hand, this distinguishes them from German-speaking Boyfriends, which nuisances were able to spoil the evening. On the other hand it clearly shows that German men do not know what “flirting”. In the major cities of Germany common another relatively new way to find a mate. It is called in English: speed Dating (speed Dating). This kind of Dating come from America. The clubs organize parties, where people come - single people, while the number of men and women is the same. Each of the candidates, boys and girls communicate with each other for a limited time, e.g, minutes. After a time you hear a special signal, and the guy is transplanted to the next girl. Participants write on a sheet the names of those present who they liked and who would like to become better acquainted.
If the crosses have two “singles” match, the organizers of speed Dating of a couple of misleading contact details to each other.
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The beauty of these mini-dates, I think, is obvious: nobody wants to deny in the face and for a short period of time to meet a bunch of people. Of course, this topic can not ignore the Dating sites. Many burghers are trying to find love on the Internet. Because here the German pragmatism is concentrated in full. We all have profiles, photos of which immediately clear what kind of people and what they want. It is sufficient to choose a suitable candidate, send the message and wait for a response. If the sympathy is mutual, it remains only to arrange the meeting. Though “Dating” and the English word, but the Germans often use it, if you designate a romantic meeting.
Of course, there is a German verb “ ” (to agree to agree to assign), but it may imply other values.
I can also meeting with a friend, as to appoint only applies to Dating. Usually the first date the Germans were going to dinner at a cafe or restaurant. The latter - for the more adventurous, because during the long dinner, you need to communicate a lot. And if people for some reason are not cute, then communication becomes a burden. As a rule, in the end everyone pays for themselves. That is not surprising: after all, even the spouse in Germany usually conduct their financial Affairs separately. Therefore, the foreigner is not worth it to try to pay the German woman, she can understand it properly. Well, on the contrary, girls to expect from a German boyfriend that he cute smile, pay for dinner, too, is not necessary. Not very talkative Germans prefer to arrange your first date at the movies.
While standing in line for tickets, you can chat a bit, and then just quietly watch a movie.
If, upon review, I want to extend communication and to know a person better, you can drink a Cup of coffee.
If not with a clear conscience go home.
It seems the burghers very practical. Therefore, if after the joint German viewing of a film partner in a hurry is a bad sign.
Those who live abroad, probably the most interesting way to learn what to expect from a romantic encounter with the Germans in terms of long-term relationships.
There is enough to find and look at the statistics of marriages of Germans with foreigners. From this it is immediately clear that men from Germany and other post-Soviet countries likely to marry a German woman very little. They are not even in the top ten nationalities with whom local Frau marry. On the first cast here the Turks, the Italians and the Americans. But as the marriages German women with German men, then there is just our women all the cards. The number of marriages with Germans, Germans are among the three. This figure is especially high in the Eastern lands, where they walked even Turkish and Polish girls.