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And I'm not very pretty and I like being lazy

Let's cut down on Facebook, the idea of getting to the male first isn't obvious to youIt's not that you don't want to meet the nicest, smartest, most effective person. But you are full of virtues, you need to promote romance on the market yourself."For me, the question of whether a woman should and should not initiate meetings is obvious,"says psychologist Giovanni. A woman always chooses a man, and what strategy he uses - the best or perfect dress with an offer of coffee-is a detail. About these details and the scratches on the head, sir. According to the survey, most people believe that the fate of easy friends in society ("at a party where everyone knows each other, it's harder to meet a crazy person"), at work ("here I find myself more often and longer"), on the Internet ("on occasion, of course"), small but easier to remain incognito, not as scary as approaching a person in a bar") and in places crowded with strangers ("I, for example, became a member of a yacht club-minimum of competitions and full of guys in wet t - shirts"). And like pubs, shops and Sunday classes at the Polytechnic, you will ask yourself: how, with whom, when.

Elvira, a psychologist, master of NLP and author of the training course"Dating Practice in the city"will dispel all your doubts. He can, wait. Remember: how often has life refused to give a person a phone number and just tell them their name? Now put yourself in the position of a normal person with whom you would like to have a relationship.

When I followed his knowledge in the transportation industry, just like you, they denied every move. At the age of (as well as more intelligent and earlier types), they realized the approach to all stupid flaws, and have been waiting patiently for a woman to let them know what she wants to know ever since. Therefore, your task is to create a situation where the person understands that you are not against Dating.

And who said that this attitude is true

And where it happens is absolutely unimportant: a Meeting with love is possible both in the supermarket, and at the stadium, and even in the elegant Bay at the foot. Go to the most indecent.

I wouldn't want to impose. Of course, it is good if this can confuse the woman, but it is very bad if she says that she will never find out before. Even the strongest man would not have fallen under that rock. If it seems to you that you can't learn the stronger sex - take it and learn. Of course, you need to work on yourself to overcome your own complexes and establish a number of"decent girls do not do this". Evaluate your motivation, analyze your fears, and finally check the commandments imposed by society and your family. This will be really difficult - you may also need to consult a psychologist or psychoanalyst. But for women with internal problems, the procedure of sessions is solved - without pretentious tasks. First I go on a diet, and then-as soon as I know myself. We all have beliefs about what we should be, and they are the cause of our internal conflicts."To get married, I must be beautiful and cheap. So marry me, it doesn't Shine,"the girl thinks, and of course, she doesn't risk Dating anyone. And maybe your favorite neighbor will be happy to lie down next to you on the sofa and book a meal for two in a restaurant.

In short, go ahead with your inner barriers and men to relax.