Where to meet a German citizen. Forum on the study of German language, life and study in Germany

Objectively, I feel ready to take this step

Need Your advice or opinionI thought long and hard about his personal life and came to the conclusion that his personal life I want to do in Germany. Possess a profession that will allow me to work remotely and contribute to the overall budget (i.e. I won't sit on the neck of her husband). Ready (morally and financially) to obtain the second higher education at a German University (not afraid of difficulties). In Germany nothing will stop me (no stamps in the passport, no children). Ideally, I would like to meet with 'the Russian' Germans in order to deal with the difference in mentality, but consider exploring a full-blooded German, I don't know if that's just deliberately to find love. Where you can know where is your soul mate. I haven't met couples who met especially during the search. Usually this happens unexpectedly, you receive love and understanding regardless of knowledge of foreign languages. Love there is no language barrier. Before we can think of to plan anything. But at some point, the destiny brings a surprise don't be afraid of the difference in mentality. Women can be very flexible and easy to adapt to the new environment. If you wish to understand each other always. My husband and I are very aware of each other.

I told him before almost anything could not tell, but he knew me much better than my compatriots.

I believe that words sometimes interfere with understanding. In some cases it is better to remain silent, to think carefully and then calmly discuss the situation, I wish sincerely You will succeed. Perhaps You are in Sunny will meet a passionate Italian. And you can create a beautiful family with a nice guy from a neighboring district with whom he can go live wherever you go) have fun) Personally, I have heard that the Germans are ashamed to admit that you're online Dating. The husband of my friend hesitate to tell the Germans that I met her on the Internet, as it is then perceived almost as a 'Ordered a German wife on the Internet'. But try to go to contact, be added to different groups for German, living in Munich, Berlin, Hamburg and smaller cities. In these groups there is always the theme of 'Acquaintances' - and believe me, many 'Russian' Germans looking for love this way, because the Germans completely unsuitable to the family and do not seek particularly to the birth of children, etc. There is, incidentally, also the resorts, oblubene just the Germans, there are almost one hundred percent can find someone, but not the fact how long. But I personally know of not one example of a happy holiday novels with the Germans. I, too, think that it is difficult to plan for love, I'm your miracle found quite suddenly or has it got me I really don't know. Never thought about Germany and the Germans, I swear. Always was a pretty cool opinion about them. damn my luck the same story) And my friends had married Germans love. And then the Germans come up with tales that the German calculation, etc. I guess I'm in Portugal were better arranged, its everywhere in the Board, the work was brought in the season before the pieces of the Euro. And then, for the love of the Pasha as a hotel maid for, you'll find in Germany the right job for you, don't worry.

if in Portugal you have had a good income, then in Germany, so you can count on a few more with all other things being equal and generally, if everything in personal life OK, kids-family all happy and in good health, do not think in this way about money, not happiness in General, if everything in personal life OK, kids-family all happy and in good health, do not think in this way about money.

me all my friends say, brush up on the language and any job. sentences a lot, the only 'but' - you need good spoken German, with time everything will come.

a year or two you will have good conversational German.

how many friends I have around the world in different countries, all started from scratch to teach all eventually mastered. a friend I came in Berlin, already talks courses two months was up, then she taught. friend friend good courses for the year to the level required for admission to the University language learned.

so it's all real.

Patience to listen to the grunts, instead of constructive conversation, not everyone on this enough. I want to give three examples from his life and friends.) I have a guy Austrian, a strong difference in mentality, as some here suspect, even kill is not found. Such a caring family guy still have among our search.

Met online on a forum discussing a topic, can not remember which.

It turned out that we live across the street and have crossed the product in the store. Of course, we didn't have that kind of beautiful story 'He looked around, not looked if she wanted to watch couldn't do it'. But a commonplace beginning (Dating) can survive, trust me, as long as everything was beyond beautiful (love, understanding, happiness). At first I didn't understand his dialect, spoke only walking, now I even translate texts from some dialects in German.

Whether it was a 'language barrier', in a sense, Yes, because his family, friends, and he had to talk to me on walking, or I wasn't 'the topic'.

PS I Found a bunch of favorite German phrase books, trying to 'quiet' to learn German to meet my mom) Is very nice) My friend met on the plane, she was flying to get married to an Austrian.

Have knowledge of the German language

They met online on the website, the level of the German, God forbid, if A, said continuous set of words no idea about the grammar:(do not know English). We became friends and I was open, as sometimes happens in life. First (on the Internet) she wrote to the man (currently her husband) through Google, she wrote in German and translated into Google German, then they met, communicated through facial expressions, fingers, drawings, dictionaries, electronic dictionary and so on. They communicated throughout the year with travel back and forth (she lived in St. Petersburg) and he offered her marriage. She is now a little better speaks German (could not make it to the training, as she changed the documents, and so on), the husband deals with her, books she bought, she goes on courses, they together cards with words to write and stick to household items. Husband loves her and helps her in everything. Although very few men are ready for such a Challenger in my life associated with the language barrier.) The other friend, the man but has to listen to her 'set of words', it all started in a super. He decided that it brings too much complexity and effort would not. The other friend, the man but has to listen to her 'set of words', it all started in a super. He decided that it brings too much complexity and effort would not.

When my German to me at the disco came after an hour's detection and gradual replanting with me to a nearby table, neither German nor English I do not know.

Vacationing in Bulgaria, because it could almost all communicate. Bulgarians mostly German were taught in school, and I understand Bulgarian to quickly start, no problem to communicate with the poles and Slovaks, a little bit difficulties with the Macedonians and the Czechs, because I know German and has mastered good German. Many Slavic languages are very similar. I didn't want to strain with the English, because I was here on vacation. And after a hard year of teaching (with hours per month and different objects) a second job in the evenings and weekends I even think I wanted, not what foreign language to teach. But the guy was persistent and very much in love. Almost the whole first year of fellowship I helped my girlfriend. Even at the resort the friend was our interpreter. For example, we stand outside my hotel 'communicate', I call a friend and ask, 'how to say it in English.'. She writes the phrase on the paper and relieve me from the balcony Already wrote in another topic that my German the next morning after meeting up found somewhere Internet club and printed phrases in German with transcription and translation into German in order to communicate with me on the beach. Immediately quickly learned the phrase for 'Go to swim', etc, compliments many printed, but hesitated to say. I immediately liked the modesty and politeness of a young man. It was very different from the arrogant and the guys on the Bulgarian resorts.

Then we were chatting on the Internet (I wrote letters and translated friend).

Visited each other. I involuntarily spoke in English and after a year of Dating after beginning to learn German. Even now, after years of Dating and months of marriage, speak German not very well, with errors. I have a level A. This is a very interesting when with the study of language learning gradually the person begins to show your character, to debate, to discuss culture, movies and home appliances. I want to say that to understand each other words are not so important.

My husband to understand my mood one has only to look at me.

He understands me better than I know myself.

I also often unable to immediately determine what he wants.

We also during the so-called 'language barrier' learned to communicate using specific signals, which consist not only of the 'grunts', and also the views, expressions and movements. Very convenient, for example, in a large group of friends for a couple of seconds to share their opinion I am also on actual fact or anything bad in it do not see - life is. My husband could easily tell that we met on the Internet (doesn't sound romantic, but nobody knows how much that is not capable of many men, he did for me), but the majority of Germans likes to keep that quiet, if you live with a foreigner. Yes, no need to go far - told in the company of Germans that we secretly lives with a German, acquainted on the Internet, then heard a single opinion on this matter: 'Ordered wife on the Internet', and the German opinion is not better. Personally, I'm still not met there is no one German woman married to a German from material considerations.

Long-distance relationships require much more effort and for me it is very valuable that we were able to go through the whole year at a distance, and the opinion of those who say, 'Ordered a German wife on the Internet' I'm not interested.

And by the way, even from the German heard this, with a dismissive 'Here's another one chased a rich German', though nothing about me and don't know. I have a German friend wants to find a German bride. He's thirty-five years. Works, intelligent, handy. Who are interested to write in Licko.